In the last post, we discussed some of the concerns people have had regarding the occupational spoke on their life wheel. But not all problems and not all the joys in life are because of work. Today's post will discuss the physical, social and spiritual aspects of the life wheel.
For the physical aspect of your life wheel, you want to include some physical activity, at least on a weekly basis, although more frequently would be better. The physical activity you choose should be appropriate for you and something you enjoy enough to keep at it. So, although I would love to ride a bike, it has been so long since I rode, that at this stage in life, I might do more harm than good for my body. In addition to keeping physically active, you should be sure to eat healthy and get a sufficient amount of sound sleep. Some people find that if anything is off/out-of-balance in any aspect of their life that their sleep is immediately effected. So they may have a fairly immediate signal that all is not well - although they still may have to figure out what is wrong.
The social spoke on your wheel encompasses the social - not-work related contacts - that you maintain. You may have some acquaintances that are just that and others who are truly friends. On those days when you're feeling down and don't really feel like 'faking it', your true friends will understand and will offer to help or, at least, to listen. If you are between jobs, resist the temptation to hide out - you need to continue to have social contacts. The same applies to those who are in retirement. Retirement should be from work, not from life. You really need to maintain some relationships through retirement in order to maintain the social aspect of your life wheel.
The spiritual spoke on your life wheel could include spending time appreciating nature, meditating, reading, or other spiritual activities. This allows you to tap into your beliefs/your source of strength. Even when things are going well in your life, you should still devote some time to the spiritual aspects of life. So often, it is when things are not going well that we draw on our spirituality, which can certainly be a source of inspiration and consolation, but I would encourage you not to reserve that just for the difficult times in life.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or job search, planning for retirement, loss of job, coping with an empty nest, preparing to return to work or school, and other life planning issues. She meets with individuals in person and via telephone helping to find solutions to problems related to life transitions. Mary Ann is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at http://www.yourcareerplan.com/ for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
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