Some individuals I have worked with explained that they knew they were not really happy in their work situation, but they were not sure if they should consider leaving. If you are trying to decide if you should stay with your current job or employer or change jobs or leave the organization, I encourage you to assess your risks - on both sides of the issue.
Think about the risks that may be involved if you leave your current situation. Since nothing is certain and there are no crystal balls, it is hard to determine if things would be better or just different in a different situation. You should consider in what ways you would like your work to be different and consider the likelihood that those differences are realistic or just a day dream. You should also consider those that things that you would like to be the same or similar to your current situation.
Also, think about the risks that may be involved if you stay in your current situation. Again, since nothing is certain and there are no crystal balls, it is hard to determine if things could be better or at least different if you stay. Since you are willing to consider leaving, you should also identify the reasons you are having those thoughts. Is it just because you wonder what else is out there or are there things that are problematic for you in your current situation?
In addition to assessing the risks if you stay or leave, I also think it is important to identify whether or not you feel that you are utilizing your skills and personal traits and whether or not your values are appreciated or able to be demonstrated in your current situation. Sometimes people can find other ways to put their skills and personal traits to good use, but if there is a conflict with their values or personal strengths, that becomes ever more difficult to cope with. So what is it for you?
Once you have considered the significant factors related to your situation, then you can think about the options you have. In some cases, people decide to pursue something different with the same employer. Others decide to look for similar work but in a different organization. Some decide they need a complete change - employer and work. And, of course, some people decide their current situation is OK, at least for now. Whatever the decision, it should have been given careful consideration and not made in a moment of heightened frustration.
Mary Ann Davis, M.A., is a Licensed Professional Counselor in private practice providing coaching and counseling or life's transitions; including career change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, grief work, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor by the National Career Development Association; a Life/work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor. Check out her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com.
To contact Ms. Davis, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment