What Is Keeping You From Following Your Dream?

As I meet with people I sometimes ask if they have 'dreamed of' becoming something or doing something that they have not yet done. Often the answer is 'yes', followed by a sigh or a chuckle. Other people seem to feel they don't even remember their 'dream job'. If you fall into either of those categories, my question to you is: What is keeping you from following your dreams?

Now, some people admit their last 'dream job' or 'dream activity' was so long ago that it is no longer appropriate. So you may want to disregard those dreams. But think about those other things you wanted to do. I encourage you to make a list of those dreams. Spend some time thinking, then writing them down, then dreaming some more. Come up with your new (or old) list of dreams.

Once you have created your list, then you can go through it to see if there are any dreams that fit together or could be combined. Some people prioritize their list so they can determine where to start. Wherever you want to start, start with a blank sheet of paper and across the top write out one of your dreams. Then start writing down things you would need to do to make that dream a reality. On a separate sheet of paper, write down any obstacles that may keep you from achieving your dreams. For each item you list as an obstacle, see if you can identify ways around it, through it, or over it. If you need some help with that part, you may want to ask some friends to brainstorm with you. The idea is to figure out how you can actualize your dreams and be prepared for any obtacles that may try to prevent it.


Mary Ann Davis, M.A., is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing career coaching and counseling for life's transitions. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association; recognized as a Life/Work Counselor (L/WC) by the National Employment Counseling Association; and a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Check out her web site at http://www.YourCareerPlan.com.
To contact Ms. Davis, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential voice message or send an email message to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.