Do You Need to Take a Step Back?

Not long ago I bought a little souvenir magnet that reads, "Step back and leap farther". When I look at it I smile because I am reminded of the many times I have done that. It is often not easy to take a step back and we may not be convinced that it will allow us to leap farther, but I encourage you to consider that as an option. So often we feel that we must continually be moving forward and upward to be considered successful. There are times when it may be more efficient and helpful to take a step back, or to the side, to get in position to be able to move forward - just as track athletes preparing for a high jump take a step back before they begin their run toward the bar.

If the path you are on does not seem to be getting you where you want to go, you may want to consider if you need to take a step back. Sometimes when I talk to people who are considering a new occupation, they indicate some reluctance to "start over" in a new field when they have gotten so far in their current area. In those instances, I encourage them to consider their options to determine if they really want to continue along their current path. Sometimes people who are relatively close to retirement decide their new direction can wait a few more years when the transition will be less complicated. Often people who are in mid-careers struggle with their options. "Starting over" in a new occupation, or even a new organization can mean a reduction of income and/or benefits. But it can also mean the start of a new, and often more rewarding, life. Only you can make those decisions.

In any case, I encourage my clients to think about what their real options are. If the current job is slowly eroding their self-confidence or contributing to poor health, is it really worthwhile to stay? Or would it be better in the long run to make a change in work? Sometimes by just reviewing why we work, we can become clearer on which factors are the most important after all.


Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or a job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, grief work, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor by the National Career Development Association; a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor. Visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com.

To contact Ms. Davis, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.