Assess Your Risks

Some individuals I have met with explain that they know they are not really happy in their current work situation, but they are not sure if they should consider leaving. If you are trying to decide if you should stay in your current employment situation or leave, I encourage you to assess your risks - on both sides of the issue.

Think about the risks that may be involved if you leave your current employment. Since nothing is certain and there are no crystal balls, it is hard to determine if things would be better or just different in a different work situation. You should consider in what ways you would like your situation to be different. You should also consider those things that you would like to be the same or similar to your current work situation.

Also think about the risks that may be involved if you stay in your current employment situation. Again, since nothing is certain and there are no crystal balls, it is hard to determine if things could be better or different if you stay. Since you are willing to consider leaving, you should identify the reasons you are having those thoughts. Is it just because you wonder what else is out there or are there things that are problematic for you in your current work situation?

I also think it is important to identify whether or not you feel that you are utilizing your skills and personal traits and whether or not your values are in sync with the values of your employer or in your current situation. Sometimes people can find other ways to put their skills and personal traits to good use, but if there is a conflict with their values or personal strengths, that is more difficult to cope with. So what is it for you?

Once you have considered the significant factors related to your situation, then you can think about the options you have. In some cases, people decide to pursue something different with the same employer. Others decide to look for similar work but in a different organization. Some people decide they need a complete change - a different employer and work. And, of course, some people decide their current situation is OK, at least for now. Whatever the decision, it should have been given careful consideration and not made in a moment of heightened frustration.


Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, grief work, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor by the National Career Development Association; a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor. Check out her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com.

To contact Ms. Davis, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.