Monday, April 11, 2011
Volunteering
I have referred to volunteering in previous posts, but wanted to make a point of addressing it today. This week, April 10 through 16, 2011, has been designated as National Volunteer Week in the US. That gives us an opportunity to express gratitude to all of those individuals throughout the country who volunteer in one way or another. If you are among them, please accept my thanks, as well. But as a career counselor and coach, I can also tell you, and from personal experience that volunteering can also be an excellent way to fulfill some of your own dreams or objectives. I was talking with a friend several years ago and mentioned a major I had in college (one of several) and that I was discouraged from pursuing it. She suggested a way that I could still do something related to that interest, if I wanted to, and she suggested an organization I might work with who could use someone with my abilities and interests. I thought about it, researched it, and volunteered. Now, five years later, I am still volunteering and I can honestly say, I still love the work I do as a volunteer. I do enjoy it enough that I do it without financial gain (pay)! I have encouraged clients to consider doing volunteer work in order to gain some experience in a particular type of industry or to hone their skills for a certain kind of work they would like to pursue. Also a volunteer, you generally have opportunities to sort of try things out to see how it fits for you. Whether it is working in a different industry or doing a different set of tasks, if you can try it out as a volunteer, there is generally less risk or less at stake than trying it out as an employee - particularly if it does not work out very well. Many of the clients I have worked with are looking for ways to bring some additional fulfillment to their lives and I encourage them to consider volunteering. Not only can volunteering be a good way to develop some skills and current experience in a particular area in preparation for a job change, it can also supplement your life/work on an ongoing basis. Sometimes a person doesn't feel like they can make a job or career change, at least not in the immediate future, but would like to be able to apply some of the skills they don't currently use in their work. Or a person whose interests are not being satisfied in their work situation might find a volunteer job that fulfills at least some of those desires. A person who has values that are not being met in their work may find an opportunity to volunteer that allows them to feel they are doing something to address some of the things that are 'close to their heart'. Volunteering doesn't usually have to be a full time job; the parameters vary depending on the circumstances. Many factors will vary depending on the type and extent of assistance you can provide and what the organization/agency/family/individual needs. If something is missing from your life, it may be that there is an opportunity to volunteer to help fill that space. Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change, job search, retirement planning, returning to work or to school, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. Mary Ann is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). She meets with individuals in person and via telephone. Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services. To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com. To contact
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Coping with the Job Search Roller Coaster (part 2)
In the last post, I talked about some issues related to conducting a job search in today's job market. We know that for most people, conducting a job search in a tight labor market is not an easy or fast process. Don't assume that everyone else has landed a new job in 2 or 3 months. These days, it could easily take 9 to 12 months, or longer to land in a new situation. If you have trouble coming up with leads or organizations to look into, you might try networking. To prepare for networking, start by making a list of everyone you know. Include not only the obvious family members and friends, but include others like your doctor, dentist, or instructor at the gym, other parents at your kid's soccer games, the person you chat with at the store or post office, etc. It may help to write a statement to help you in your networking efforts. Something like, "I want to do _____but I am having trouble because _________." Fill in those blanks as they relate to your situation. Then begin sharing your statement with people from your list and ask if they have any thoughts regarding it or suggestions for you. We know that most jobs that are filled are never advertised anywhere. So you should not spend all day looking through want ads or web sites. Since it is estimated that only 15 to 20% of job openings are advertised, you should not spend more than 15 to 20% of your job search time looking through ads. You should plan your time so that you do some networking or job search activities every day. Whether it is meeting with contacts or calling someone from your list, drafting letters, sending thank you notes, etc. For many people, it helps to create a daily schedule and set aside time to work on job search activities. Keep in mind that persistence is necessary when your search gets stalled - don't become a victim of discouragement. If you find you need help keeping motivated, identify at least three people you can call upon to help you refocus and get re-energized. If you feel your goal is too overwhelming and you can't seem to get started - identify three things you can focus on first - even if they are small things. It is important to keep all aspects of your life in perspective. Some people refer to this as 'counting your blessings'. So think of the things in life that you do have that you should be thankful for. Also, make sure you keep your life wheel as balanced as possible. Reward yourself for your efforts, for your abilities and your strengths. Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including a job search or career change, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, coping with loss of job, preparing to return to work or to college, non-retirement planning, and other life planning issues. She meets with individuals in person and via telephone. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor (L/WC) by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor. Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services. To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Coping with the Job Search Roller Coaster
A job search requires you to get 'psyched up' to update/write a positive resume and cover letter and to continue to pump yourself up as you prepare for networking and interviews. If things don't work out as you hoped, there is somewhat of a let down. But you can't afford to spend time feeling down because you must continue on with your search. Even in good economic times, a job search can be an emotional roller coaster because of the uncertainties. You get excited about the possibilities and at least somewhat disappointed or disheartened if it does not work out. In these times, that cycle may be repeated several times. Rather than letting that frustrate you over and over again, it is best to find ways to cope with that job search roller coaster. One of the difficulties some people face have to do with their situation and coping strategies they apply to it. No matter the reason you are conducting a job search, you should develop strategies to help you cope with that change. Dr. Nancy Schlossberg, author of Overwhelmed: Coping with Life's Ups and Downs, discusses coping with change and suggests you consider whether or not there is anything you can do to change the actual situation. Can you brainstorm a plan to help you make a change? Can you negotiate - perhaps when the change will happen, for example? Is there positive action you could take before the change actually takes place? This may have potential, even if you would be leaving your job involuntarily. Secondly, is there anything you can do to change how you view the situation or change? Instead of thinking of it as 'the end of the world' could you view it as providing you with an opportunity to do something different? Even if you can't view it as a positive, if you can think of the change as a neutral event in your life, that will help you to cope with it. Also, you are encouraged to find ways to take stress in your stride. Find ways to release some of those emotions, apply relaxation techniques, play, find some creative or physical outlets for your stress, etc. Although I have identified this post as related to a job search, the same suggestions apply to other transitions in life. We will address more on this emotional roller coaster in a later post. Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice, providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change and job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, non-retirement planning, and other life planning issues. She meets with individuals in person or at a distance via telephone. Ms. Davis is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor (L/WC) by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor. Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services. To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Identify the Skills You Possess That You Enjoy Using
Sometimes when I talk to people about the kind of work they want to do and skills they would like to use, they have a difficult time identifying their primary skills. Generally speaking, skills can be developed and improved by using them repeatedly in a work situation, but also in volunteer, community, and family or personal activities. In many cases, people enjoy doing things they are good at. In some instances, you may be good at a particular skill, but you no longer want to use it on a regular basis. That is OK, too.
Skills have been categorized in different ways, but probably the most basic method is to think in terms of working primarily with people, with things, or with data. Although most tasks involve some combination of those skills, we can think in terms of these as primary skill sets.
If your primary skills involve working with people, that would generally mean you have the interpersonal skills to interact with others - whether one-on-one or with groups. You probably enjoy talking to and helping others, persuading or training or advising others. Your next steps would be to determine which of the 'people' skills you most enjoy using.
If your primary skills involve working with things, that would generally mean you have the ability to work with your hands - whether using fine motor skills, or working on large objects. You are probably good at maintaining or fixing equipment and machines, and finding out how things work. People who are good with things use a variety of tools and equipment. If this describes you, you probably have the ability to follow written instructions and the ability to build, repair, and/or maintain things. Many "things" people are good at operating machinery or tools, large or small. Again, determine which "things" skills you most enjoy using.
If your primary skills involve working with data, that would generally mean you have the ability to work with information - generally with numbers or other pieces of information. You may be good at handling details, storing and retrieving information, and problem solving. Again, you determine which of the "data" skills you most enjoy using.
Whether you are looking for employment or volunteer opportunities or even identifying new hobbies or classes you want to take, knowing the skills you possess, that you enjoy using, could be helpful. In some cases, you may need to learn a new skill to be fully marketable, but that could be relatively easy, if it builds upon other skills you possess.
In addition to some formal interest inventories, there are probably several an online quizzes or surveys to help you identify your preferences for working with data/information, people or things. One simple tool is available at http://www.workingincanada.gc.ca. It is sponsored by the Canadian Government. Choose the 'Skills and Knowledge Checklist' button. Following completion of the survey, you would receive a list of occupations that represent your primary preferences. You can also think about things/activities you are good at that you have enjoyed and create your own list of preferred skills.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She meets with individuals in person and on-line. Mary Ann is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association; a Life/work Counselor (L/WC) by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Skills have been categorized in different ways, but probably the most basic method is to think in terms of working primarily with people, with things, or with data. Although most tasks involve some combination of those skills, we can think in terms of these as primary skill sets.
If your primary skills involve working with people, that would generally mean you have the interpersonal skills to interact with others - whether one-on-one or with groups. You probably enjoy talking to and helping others, persuading or training or advising others. Your next steps would be to determine which of the 'people' skills you most enjoy using.
If your primary skills involve working with things, that would generally mean you have the ability to work with your hands - whether using fine motor skills, or working on large objects. You are probably good at maintaining or fixing equipment and machines, and finding out how things work. People who are good with things use a variety of tools and equipment. If this describes you, you probably have the ability to follow written instructions and the ability to build, repair, and/or maintain things. Many "things" people are good at operating machinery or tools, large or small. Again, determine which "things" skills you most enjoy using.
If your primary skills involve working with data, that would generally mean you have the ability to work with information - generally with numbers or other pieces of information. You may be good at handling details, storing and retrieving information, and problem solving. Again, you determine which of the "data" skills you most enjoy using.
Whether you are looking for employment or volunteer opportunities or even identifying new hobbies or classes you want to take, knowing the skills you possess, that you enjoy using, could be helpful. In some cases, you may need to learn a new skill to be fully marketable, but that could be relatively easy, if it builds upon other skills you possess.
In addition to some formal interest inventories, there are probably several an online quizzes or surveys to help you identify your preferences for working with data/information, people or things. One simple tool is available at http://www.workingincanada.gc.ca. It is sponsored by the Canadian Government. Choose the 'Skills and Knowledge Checklist' button. Following completion of the survey, you would receive a list of occupations that represent your primary preferences. You can also think about things/activities you are good at that you have enjoyed and create your own list of preferred skills.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She meets with individuals in person and on-line. Mary Ann is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association; a Life/work Counselor (L/WC) by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Monday, March 14, 2011
Still trying to Figure Out What To Be When You "Grow Up"?
Many times people have said to me, "I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up". Generally, the individual is already what we would consider grown. In most cases, the individual is someone who has several years of work experience, but that is not the kind of work they want to keep doing.
If you feel the same way, maybe you should take some time to figure out what you would like to do. It can seem like an overwhelming task, particularly without any guidance, so it usually helps to break it into smaller pieces. You may begin by thinking of career dreams you have had and starting a list of possible career directions. Don't eliminate possible jobs because of pre-conceived notions you have about what the field is like, without getting the facts. Just brainstorm and come up with a list of potential occupations, to get you started.
Some people find it helps to complete some self-assessments to identify interests, abilities, and other personal preferences. Formal assessments are available that will provide a report with potential occupations that may fit with your interests and skills. There are also assessments that will help you to clarify your personal strengths/personality type, or your values, as they relate to work, or other personal preferences.
Although I recommend a formal assessment, if that is not feasible, it may be helpful to do some informal self-assessments or reflect upon your work-related preferences. Set aside small blocks of time to work on those so that you can work your way through it.
Create a list of occupations from your brainstorming or from the assessment results. Review that list and identify any that you need more information on. You may want to read about some of those potential occupations that you are not familiar with. Then you can determine from those potential occupations if there are any you would want to prepare for or pursue. Perhaps then you will have figured out what you want to do, now that you are grown up.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice, providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including a job search or career change, retirement planning, or other life transitions. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
If you feel the same way, maybe you should take some time to figure out what you would like to do. It can seem like an overwhelming task, particularly without any guidance, so it usually helps to break it into smaller pieces. You may begin by thinking of career dreams you have had and starting a list of possible career directions. Don't eliminate possible jobs because of pre-conceived notions you have about what the field is like, without getting the facts. Just brainstorm and come up with a list of potential occupations, to get you started.
Some people find it helps to complete some self-assessments to identify interests, abilities, and other personal preferences. Formal assessments are available that will provide a report with potential occupations that may fit with your interests and skills. There are also assessments that will help you to clarify your personal strengths/personality type, or your values, as they relate to work, or other personal preferences.
Although I recommend a formal assessment, if that is not feasible, it may be helpful to do some informal self-assessments or reflect upon your work-related preferences. Set aside small blocks of time to work on those so that you can work your way through it.
Create a list of occupations from your brainstorming or from the assessment results. Review that list and identify any that you need more information on. You may want to read about some of those potential occupations that you are not familiar with. Then you can determine from those potential occupations if there are any you would want to prepare for or pursue. Perhaps then you will have figured out what you want to do, now that you are grown up.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice, providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including a job search or career change, retirement planning, or other life transitions. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Friday, February 25, 2011
What Is Your 'Dream' Work?
I read an article not long ago that talked about writing a story to describe what your next job would be like. I encourage my clients to do creative writing to help them with many thought processes. Sometimes we get so caught up with what is going on in our heads, that we don't think abut what's going on in our hearts. For most decisions, you need to consider both - your head and your heart.
As you consider my topic for this post, what is the work that you dream about? I know you may be thinking that work is work and if you could just get a job, you would be happy about that. As I mentioned last time, it is possible for work to be more satisfying than the day-to-day grind it may have become. Although you may be inclined to think that work is just work, try to avoid that temptation. As a matter of fact, many career professionals and others believe that the more details you can fill in on what you would like your next job to be like, the more likely you are to find it. That is partly because as you consider more details, you are more likely to think of ways or places where you could bring that picture, your dream work, into reality.
So, even if you don't actually write a story that describes your dream or ideal work, I suggest you at least write down, in as much detail as possible, what that work would be like - in an 'ideal' or 'dream' situation. Think about whether you would be working primarily with people, primarily with data, or primarily with things,. If you would be working primarily or secondarily with people, consider what those people would be like - their qualities and characteristics. Also would you work with them as co-workers or would they be your customers/clients/students, etc. In many cases, you may have co-workers and customers or clients.
Consider what age group you would prefer to work with - as customers/clients/students and whether or not they are people with disabilities, or other issues/concerns/presenting problems, and other general descriptors you would prefer; things such as level of education or training, if appropriate. The idea is to write out a description of who your "average" person to work with would be like. Next time I will write more about your dream work.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at http://www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
As you consider my topic for this post, what is the work that you dream about? I know you may be thinking that work is work and if you could just get a job, you would be happy about that. As I mentioned last time, it is possible for work to be more satisfying than the day-to-day grind it may have become. Although you may be inclined to think that work is just work, try to avoid that temptation. As a matter of fact, many career professionals and others believe that the more details you can fill in on what you would like your next job to be like, the more likely you are to find it. That is partly because as you consider more details, you are more likely to think of ways or places where you could bring that picture, your dream work, into reality.
So, even if you don't actually write a story that describes your dream or ideal work, I suggest you at least write down, in as much detail as possible, what that work would be like - in an 'ideal' or 'dream' situation. Think about whether you would be working primarily with people, primarily with data, or primarily with things,. If you would be working primarily or secondarily with people, consider what those people would be like - their qualities and characteristics. Also would you work with them as co-workers or would they be your customers/clients/students, etc. In many cases, you may have co-workers and customers or clients.
Consider what age group you would prefer to work with - as customers/clients/students and whether or not they are people with disabilities, or other issues/concerns/presenting problems, and other general descriptors you would prefer; things such as level of education or training, if appropriate. The idea is to write out a description of who your "average" person to work with would be like. Next time I will write more about your dream work.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change or job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association, a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association, and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her web site at http://www.YourCareerPlan.com for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Why Do You Work?
So, why do you work? Oh, I know, because you enjoy eating, having a place to rest, wearing a warm coat, etc. But beyond providing for the basic necessities of life, why do you do the work you do? If your work only provides a source of money and you get little or no satisfaction from it, I would say you are being underpaid.
Your work and your job should also provide you with some sense of satisfaction, a sense of making a contribution to making this a better world. Ideally, your job should feel like an adventure. You should look forward to going to work - at least on most days not mind going to work.
If this doesn't describe your situation, I would ask if you have considered changing jobs. If not, is that because you think if it were enjoyable, they wouldn't call it "work"? So many people I have talked to are just "marking time". They have been in their job so long that they hate to leave their employer and if they can just hold on, or hang in there another ___ number of years, they can retire and then do what they want to do. Part of the problem with that thinking is that not everyone is able to hold on and, sometimes involuntarily, their jobs are gone. Another problem with that thinking , at least from my point of view, is that life is too short to spend it wishing, hoping, and waiting for something that may or may not ever come.
So, if you have been just "holding on", I encourage you to start thinking about what kind of work you would do if you could afford to work for free. What could bring you joy just thinking about your work/your contribution? What gifts do you have to share with the world? Once you begin to picture that, then you can begin to figure out how to make that picture a reality.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change, job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, non-retirement planning, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association; a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her website at http://www.yourcareerplan.com/ for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
Your work and your job should also provide you with some sense of satisfaction, a sense of making a contribution to making this a better world. Ideally, your job should feel like an adventure. You should look forward to going to work - at least on most days not mind going to work.
If this doesn't describe your situation, I would ask if you have considered changing jobs. If not, is that because you think if it were enjoyable, they wouldn't call it "work"? So many people I have talked to are just "marking time". They have been in their job so long that they hate to leave their employer and if they can just hold on, or hang in there another ___ number of years, they can retire and then do what they want to do. Part of the problem with that thinking is that not everyone is able to hold on and, sometimes involuntarily, their jobs are gone. Another problem with that thinking , at least from my point of view, is that life is too short to spend it wishing, hoping, and waiting for something that may or may not ever come.
So, if you have been just "holding on", I encourage you to start thinking about what kind of work you would do if you could afford to work for free. What could bring you joy just thinking about your work/your contribution? What gifts do you have to share with the world? Once you begin to picture that, then you can begin to figure out how to make that picture a reality.
Mary Ann Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in private practice providing coaching and counseling for life's transitions; including career change, job search, as well as loss of job, retirement planning, coping with an empty nest, non-retirement planning, and other life planning issues. She is certified as a Master Career Counselor (MCC) by the National Career Development Association; a Life/Work Counselor by the National Employment Counseling Association; and is a Distance Credentialed Counselor (DCC). Please visit her website at http://www.yourcareerplan.com/ for more information on her services.
To contact Mary Ann, please call (513) 665-4444 x3 and leave a personal and confidential message or send an email to YourCareerPlan@cinci.rr.com.
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